The Joy of Sacrifice

August 17, 2011 § Leave a comment

Some once told me True Love existed and I went hell high laughing my guts out. (True Story) Kinda strange to know later on that SHE actually laid the truth all out. The art of loving is not just caring, cause if that’s the situation then every one does love. Every one shows care, compassion and affection for those they want to either woe or maintain as their soul mates. Not everyone actually Truly Loves. Unless a guy/girl is capable of putting their lives on the line for another with both arms and focus involved, entailing the ultimate art of SACRIFICE, then that person really doesn’t love truly  He/She is merely doing it for the fun of it.

Starring into the cloudy skies of our present days and watching the clouds form, I realized one thing; The path to success in life is always under construction. Succeeding in life demands that you try as much as possible to create an equilibrium in your environment which will foster the growth and enhancement of economic, political  financial and most importantly your Social standings. For these statuses to be achieved, you need not be a novice but a regular, if not a professional in the mastery of your life in your hands. Knowing how to control it is the ultimate Key.

Challenges when taken result to grabbing experiences which won’t have been achieved if you didn’t risk the chance or opportunity. Like the saying goes, “Do not wait for things to happen, go out and make them happen”, so do I say as well that with every challenge which comes your way, you must take the risk and grab it, deal with it with caution and do not get carried away by either the excitements or the sadness of it cause you’ll learn an important lesson. There are very many negatives and positives  The negatives can’t be avoided and that’s what you should look most into. See where you erred and correct yourself. With the positives  be grateful you passed that side of the test and further improve on how you can develop that section. When you make trust an issue, do not let it go till the end cause you’ll end up with one of the following two things;

1. A good relationship, or

2. A good lesson ( from a bad relationship)

Look into the negatives of life positively and you’ll find the gold which lurks around it waiting to be extracted. Experiences are the best of all teachers in life. A good teacher is one who lets you get the experience first before sitting in class. Then you’ll succeed beyond doubt. Life and the Society play the role of that same teacher who lets you get the experiences (joys and pains inclusively in life) before sitting in their class rooms where they teach you a little thing or two. They of course do expect you to be positive with everything, if not, being Logical is best.

Making a Sacrifice for the benefit of the others, for their growth and mind and person, no matter how the sacrifice is made shouldn’t be taken for granted. It takes a lot to build a relationship same as just one word/act could end it. The reason behind the splits should be looked upon though not for the harm they’ve caused but for the joy and grace of the experience achieved. An idea, no matter how small it is can conquer the toughest of warriors, kingdoms and minds.

If you’re looking for someone to blame, do not blame the person nor the tongue, but the Idea which was conceived and executed. Look into the idea and at least see the goodness which lies in it for you, your future and personality.

I have loved, I love and still will Love. But never have I had such an Idea and executed it. It’s a sacrifice I made, not primarily for my benefit but because I understood you, saw where you were strong, saw where you were weak and needed an upgrade and Primarily because I Truly Loved you!!

Letting you go is my Ultimate sacrifice and proof of how much I believe in You.

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Everytime I Look At The Stars

February 28, 2011 § 1 Comment

I gazed in your eyes,
Such a beautiful blue;
My heart whispered to me,
And that’s right when I knew;
The waves had ceased crashing,
On the sand at our feet;
Time had stopped passing,
My search was complete;
I finally discovered,
What I’d known all along;
A mystery uncovered,
That just couldn’t be wrong;
It wasn’t our first kiss,
Nor’ the day that we met;
But I realized something,
I will never forget;
With the stars shining brightly,
From high up above;
I’d one word to describe it,
That word, is love.
I knew then these feelings,
For my sweetheart were true;
The woman of my dreams,
And my soul mate, is you.
I think of it every time,
That I look at the stars;
This memory is mine,
But that moment was
OURS.

101 ways to say I LOVE YOU and ways to be forever ROMANTIC

October 19, 2010 § 2 Comments


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How much is loving too Much??? – My Answer

October 10, 2010 § 4 Comments

A young girl kisses a baby on the cheek.

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Rather than getting to explain what love means, for its obvious that an average 15-year-old will know what it means, I’ll just get down to explaining the big deal. This question of how much is loving too much, is one of the many questions that have plagued the minds of the young now-a-days.

What then is loving? To love entails that one shows fine persona to the other which can be termed as”being affectionate”. Being affectionate to your partner is one of the keys that drive a relationship onwards. It as such is a way of expressing oneself to the other on pleasantry terms.

Affection, when taken to an extent becomes a problem. Like the saying goes, ” too much of everything can make you sick”. In loving you must be affectionate what then happens when you take it to an extreme ( loving too much) ? The short story beneath will give a guide line as to what loving too much or being hyper affectionate means.

“I am a 25-year-old woman with a 29-year-old fiance. My problem is that he is constantly saying ‘I love you’ to me. You think this is not such a bad thing? How about 12 to 15 times an hour? He also expects me to say it back to him, like some robotic response, but I refuse to say it constantly because I feel it decreases the meaning of the statement. I have explained this to him, and he said, ‘but it’s nice to hear it too’. The more I refuse to repeat it to him each time he says it, the more he keeps saying it. What is wrong with him?”

From the above, it’s important to note the speaker’s problem. It can be seen that the 29-year-old man loves his fiancée, but he is being too affectionate by his constant nagging with the statement “I love you”. The effect on his fiancée is negative cause she’s being bugged. She’s not appreciating the fact that he keeps repeating it. He is damaging the relationship.

The idea of getting to hear that statement a lot can actually make you sick. Contrarily it’s not possible not telling your partner that you love him/her because it’ll spark off another problem in the long run. Those words and nice and loving to hear most especially when they are HONEST, but bores when you get it a lot.

One last thing, the aspect about love is that it’s of an eternal origin, it’s an eternal virtue. It therefore can’t be measured for it’s a gift. Loving too much will therefore be the manner in which we use this gift eternally given to us of which is a bad thing on the grounds of AFFECTION.

To love therefore is not bad but to love too much is bad. Concluding, this answers the question. Loving too much is BAD.

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